Babies are popping out everywhere. Social media is filled with photos of tiny humans. First birthdays, first steps, first everything.
I imagine it’s not all cute because there are friends willing to expose the reality of being a parent. Sleepless nights, disgusting diaper stories and the feeling of not knowing what to do.
I wonder what that would be like.
When my husband and I got married, we decided to wait a year before starting a family. It has been three.
While I wait for a baby, many wait for a spouse. Some of you with children wait for a quiet moment, others for a job opportunity. This is real life people. Full of unfulfilled expectation.
I wish I had answers but don’t. Thoughts of jealousy, judgment and anger may cross our minds,however, it is our decision to feel sorry for ourselves or genuinely be happy for those living their moments. I choose the latter.
Through this, I have learned that my purpose in life cannot lie solely within these wants. A title of parent, friend, spouse, teacher, home- owner or rocket scientist may all fade one day. Your character and the way you handle life will not.
For now, I will enjoy my sleep and appreciate the relationships I am blessed to have.